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What exactly is the difference between giving and receiving in relationships? The ability to receive is essential to be able to connect with another person. 

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Your father is the person who gives you your natural vigour and ambition, as long as he’s in the correct place in the family system.

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Emotions come about based on your interpretation of a situation. You observe something and the interpretation surfaces based on your own frame of reference. The emergence of emotions is a consequence of your interpretation. 

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A relationship is a collaboration. A constant exchange of giving and receiving. You receive and give attention, support, care, a roof over your head, company and sex. Which can be warm and loving. But this doesn’t necessarily mean you are deeply connected with each other. The actual connection depends on how you are connected to your mother. Looking for a serious relationship? Listen to how the person in question talks about his or her mother.

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Do you recognise the so-called ‘good little girl and boy syndrome’? As long as you meet the other person’s expectations, work hard and are kind, everything will ultimately be okay. Dream on!