The fountain, make wise choices

Increase your systemic awareness and allow yourself to thrive in your life

Some people are always capable to do the near impossible. Why? What can you influence and what not? The trick is to make that distinction. If you better recognize the force field in which you find yourself, learn to perceive without judgment and can surrender to "what is", you can make wise choices with which you let yourself go well and realise things that you previously thought weren’t possible.

"The fountain" as a metaphor helps you to take your own place firmly and allow someone else his or her place. In this book you will learn how the fountain affects your life and can be applied to many themes, such as your relationships, your health, your work and society. Being in the right place helps you significantly to be less ego-driven and to be able to act more from who you are in essence, so that what wants to reveal itself through you comes out.

By increasing your awareness and insight into (invisible) laws that run right through your life, you become aware of the systemic field of which you are a part. This way you can make the right choices and use your energy wisely. The fountain will be recognizable and comforting, because it gives you insight and offers tools to look at your issues. To let go of what is not yours. And to take action where possible.

You decide for yourself what is wise. Make your choices with the help of the fountain and ensure a high quality of life in the present and in the future.

What can you do to positively influence the dynamics on your life path?

The metaphor of the fountain makes it clear what your unique and own place is. The fountain helps you to firmly take your own place and to allow someone else his or her place. Insight into your family system of origin is essential for this. Your family system is the inextricable connection with your relatives. You are much more connected to your family system of origin than you can imagine. The patterns in your 'family fountain' repeat in your private and professional life. During your life you’re accompanied by your ego. You have an ego, but you are not your ego. Letting go of your ego becomes more and more successful as you take your place in the fountain. People then want to be around you, because your quality of presence is higher. You’ll then also be granted more love, attention, work, etc.

If you better recognize the force field in which you find yourself, learn to observe without judgment and can surrender to 'what is', you can make wiser choices. Insight into systemic laws and principles and learning to deal with 'duality' is essential here. There are laws in a system. You may find these laws unfair or unjust, but systemic dynamics do not take into account ethics or opinions. This book explains how those principles work. The better you understand that, the more you can make systemic principles work for you rather than against you.

To be able to distinguish what you can and cannot influence, an increase in your awareness is necessary. How you can do that is explained in detail in this book. The crux here is to learn to let go.

By expanding your consciousness you can observe more and more clearly. The effect is that you are better able to observe more mildly or even without judgment, both to others and to yourself. You then see the bigger picture rather than partial aspects. You will then observe differently, which may allow you to make different choices, because you can distinguish the feasible and realistic options from the non-feasible ones. And hopefully you will let yourself and your loved ones go well. What the world needs are people who are alive and awake, without feeling themselves better or less than others. Because bright and lively people can often do the almost impossible anyway.

The fountain will be recognizable, perhaps confrontational and comforting, because it gives you insight and offers tools to look at your issues. To let go of what you have. And to take action where possible.

I wish you a flowing fountain!
Els van Steijn

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